A harness dildo isn’t about substitution of the penis but allows couples to bring new ideas and techniques into their love-making for both partners to enjoy. It can allow the woman in a straight/gay relationship to feel the power for the first time as she lives out a fantasy of control through different types of love making. For a male who is open to suggestions he can live out a fantasy of submission. The whole idea of the harness love aid is to open up the bedroom to experimentation and this leads to great fun.

If you feel a dildo and sex toy harness maybe ideal for you then I would suggest three different criteria that you may want to look out for when considering the right one:-

1. The dildo needs to have a wide flare base (for safety if things get a bit heated).

2. Check the dildo is firm and flexible enough for harness use.

3.The dildo has at least average penis size i.e. at least 5.5 inches

When you are considering a harness love aid you don’t need to use the whole length but a short dildo can be very frustrating as you may end up not getting the desired penetration that you and your partner want. Firmer dildos are recommended for harness use. The ideal choice is the silicone option if they are affordable and in your budget.

The use of a dildo in love making can take the pressure of a man to perform all the time and he can still satisfy his partner whilst both couples can have fun. Dildos are great for both self-pleasure and also as an aid to sex and should be part of any couples sex life. Yes dildos can benefit a couple’s sex life and can start from as little as $10 for a jelly rubber dildo. There is a whole world of experimentation out there and it is through the use of love aids that couples can achieve total satisfaction.